“Should you”….. Yes, you should, but you always CAN’T. The study of Genealogy won’t allow it.
Genealogy is a “Soft Science” of sorts, not a “Hard Science.” The difference means you can’t PROVE definitively what you find in a Soft Science. There is always an element of doubt built in, and expected, in anything you find and read. Sociology, Anthropology, Philosophy, and Psychology are just a few other Soft Sciences we’re familiar with. The other thing you’ll find is a lot of opinions, based on that element of doubt.
When Genealogists share their research, it is usually done with the best of intentions. I don’t recall anyone (related or not) I’ve talked to who is “lying” to me about their research. They are often having some of the same problems I have finding reliable information, or having problems I used to have when I was starting out – just figuring out how to START!
I got started in Genealogy for several reasons. 1) I was a history major when I started in college, and would have enjoyed doing historical research, although I found quickly it was NOT something I wanted to teach. 2) I was an only child. I had friends, but no siblings. As I got older, I found out that I indeed did have siblings, albeit HALF-siblings from previous women my Father was married to. After 20+ years doing research, there are still questions I cannot answer. 3) Among those questions was my Mother. What were my parents’ relationship issues that caused her to divorce my Father and begin again three other times with other men, in two cases having other children? This turned out to be one of the major factors in my interest in Genealogy.
These were all viewed from the perspective of a much younger man. As a more mature individual now, I know people divorce, move on to other marriages, trade one set of friends for another, move around trying to find work, become criminals, and so on. EVERY family has a story to tell – no family is immune.
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When information is shared between Genealogists, best case scenario is that sources go with demographic information. That’s the PROOF factor of Soft Sciences. History is rife with examples of individuals or entire families who never existed, but somehow made it into Genealogy records and passed from generation to generation and accepted as fact. I know, because I have them in my lines.
I try to source whenever possible, and try to verify the sources I find, but since I’m not making any money from my research and I’m doing it mostly for fun and family history, I’m willing to accept that I won’t find sources for everyone in my database. It doesn’t mean my research is no less important than someone else, just that I haven’t got a solid source for the information I have. I still can’t afford to travel all over the world poring through public records and searching library files.
Some Genealogists are purists, and look down on anything less than references that have been proved beyond a shadow of a doubt, which many of mine aren’t. I am always looking for more “proof” of my existence down through the generations, but I have a level of acceptance of source credibility I’m happy with, so I’ll continue doing what I do. More about what should be in a “proper” source in my next post, this from Family Tree.
